God dammit

me: hey you, what are you up to?
her: crying. you?
(I try to call her)
me: Reading, why are you crying?
her: I dont have enough to battery to talk on the phone
me: it's fine, why are you crying though?
her: Stressed and i got in a giant fight with ______(her ex)
me: what about?
her: stupid shit and we both blew it out of proportion
me: I'm sorry
her: It's chill i guess.
me: well apparently it isn't or else you wouldn't be crying
her: I meant im use to it. Im not crying just because of that. Mostly its the stress but when she makes it seem like Shes not on my side it sends me over the edge.
me: You shouldn't have to be used to it.
her: It happens. It sucks and its unfair but thats life.
me: You sound like me :/ I really don't know how to help, now I know how you might have felt in the car
her: Wow lady gaga is wierd...
me: What?
her: Lady gaga. She sings just dance featuring colby o donnis. She was just on so you think you can dance. She is one strange lady...
me: Oh I've never watched it or heard of her, so we finally hit the part of you that's going to be hard to figure out I guess
her: ?
me: Nothing, anyways
her: What?
me: We don't need to talk about it right now
her: Well I want to. You obviously wanted me to ask you about it or you wouldn't have said anything.
me: I did but I changed my mind after I sent it, why do you want to
her: I don't like to play games.
me: It isn't a game, it's just one of the things you and I just don't seem to understand about eachother, when the other is upset, I had no clue what to do or how to act, then you talked about someting else so I just let you change the subject instead of calling you out on it
me: And now you aren't saying anything...
her: You said that after I changed the subject. You said it because you wanted me to ask, for whatever reason. Why bring it up if you don't want to talk about it.
me: I did want to talk about it but then I realized the fact that you were upset was more important and regretted saying it when I did, I didn't want to have this conversation while you were upset, this is one of the things I was trying to avoid
me: I could tell it would turn into an argument instead of a good conversation
her: what does what you said have to do with me being upset? I cant have been that upset if i got bored enough with why i was upset to change the subject.
me: I don't know you well enough to know why you changed the subject ______(her name), everyone else does because they are trying to avoid it, i'm still trying to figure you out
her: Whatever. you wanted me to ask and i did. My bad.
me: Exuse me for trying not to get into a fight with you
her: You brought up something because you wanted to talk about it. I tried to talk to you and all of a sudden you dont want to. Mind game.
me: It's not a god damn mind game ______(her name), i'm sorry I was trying to be sensative, I won't make that mistake again
her: Ok whatever.
me: And the long text about how we don't understand eacother when we are upset, that's what I meant when I said the part of you that will be hard to figure out
her: What the hell was so hard about saying that when I asked you what you were talking about?! You had to draw it out...
me: I said it a couple texts later before you even got mad at me! And I already explained why I was reluctant to say it
her: Im done arguing with you. Good night.
me: You wouldn't be arguing with me if you weren't pissed about _____(her ex)
her: Im not upset with her. Im upset with you. It has nothing to do with her and i am finished talking about this. Good night.
me: Whatever


How did that even turn into a god damn fight?!
Fuck this.