I don't like this :/

I've realized I can make most people,
that already swing my way at least,
or that are the 'correct' gender,
like me,
I can find what they like in a person,
and become it,
or charm them into it,
and it works almost every time,
I don't exactly mean to do it,
but I've realized that I do,
and I don't like it,
it really needs to stop,
I've gotten a lot better though...