She has a good point

[22:52] DS: why are you talking to Roger if shes only proven to hurt you
[22:53] STL: because I am an idiot and still care about her
[22:53] DS: can you do something for me?
[22:54] STL: what is it?
[22:54] DS: the next time Roger hurts you, block her from contacting you in any way shape or form
[22:54] STL: Then I would have to now cause at this point it constantly hurts
[22:55] DS: then please do it now and save yourself from becoming depressed over her
[22:55] DS: it hurts more when the person is constantly there to remind you of the hurt
[22:56] STL: But then I'll feel like more of an ass for leaving her alone
[22:56] STL: Then the guilt and lack of knowing whats going on with her will depress me even more
[22:57] DS: there's no winning with you is there
[22:57] STL: No